A Dog Parent's Bucket List: Things to Do Before Your Dog Gets Old
Your dog doesn't know they're getting older. They just know you came home, and that's still the best thing that's ever happened to them. Every single day.
We don't get to keep our dogs forever. That's the deal none of us signed up for and all of us agreed to anyway, because a life with a dog in it is worth the heartbreak at the end. But here's the good news. You still have time, and time is exactly what a bucket list is for.
This isn't about rushing to the finish line. It's about paying attention now, while your dog's still chasing the ball and still barking at the Amazon guy.
Here's a list of things to do with your dog before they get old, plus a story that will explain better than I ever could why this matters so much to me.
Why a Dog Bucket List Matters More Than You Think
Dogs live in dog years, but we live in ours, and the math's never fair.
A dog who's seven might already be considered a senior. A dog who's eleven thinks she's still a puppy in her heart, even if her hips disagree.
A bucket list isn't about grief, it's about noticing. It's a nudge to get up off the couch and actually do the things you keep saying you'll get around to. The road trip. The hike. The photos you keep meaning to book "someday." Someday has a way of sneaking up on dog parents, and I'd rather you get there with a full list of memories than a list of regrets.
The Bucket List:
Things to Do With Your Dog Before They Get Old
I’m partial to Number 10, myself.
1. Take the road trip. Windows down, snout out, a new town to sniff. It doesn't have to be far. It just has to be new.
2. Let them meet the ocean, a lake, or at least a really good puddle. Some dogs were born for water. Others will look at you like you've lost your mind. Both reactions are worth catching on camera.
3. Have a proper ice cream date. A pup cup counts. So does a whole cone if your vet isn't reading this.
4. Take them somewhere they can run full speed with nothing in the way. A Sniffspot. A backyard at 6am before the neighbors are up or a place like Zoomies Canine Club. Let them really open it up. Yes, they make really long leashes to help in this endeavor.
5. Learn one new trick together. Old dogs absolutely can learn new tricks. It's good for their brain and honestly good for your bond too.
6. Host a doggy playdate with their best friend. The dog they light up around. The one who gets the zoomies started. Get it on video.
7. Go camping, even for one night. A tent, a sunset, a dog curled up against your leg under the stars. That's a core memory in the making.
8. Let them get properly messy. Mud, snow, sand, whatever your dog loves to roll in. Don't fight it for one afternoon. Just let them live. Maybe schedule a spa day with Woofies immediately after if it helps.
9. Take them to a dog friendly patio or brewery. Good people watching, a water bowl, maybe a treat from the bartender. Dogs love being included. Old 121 Brewhouse on Oak St is just one of many Lakewood dog friendly spots, so is New Terrain in Golden.
10. Book a professional photoshoot. Not a blurry phone photo mid sneeze. Real portraits, the kind that catch the specific tilt of their head or the exact color of their eyes, or the way their fur glows when it's lit up in that golden hour light. That’s the kind you'll want printed and framed, not buried in your camera roll behind thousands of screenshots.
11. Write down their quirks. The weird sleeping positions. The way they sigh. The thing they do when they know it's dinner time. You think you'll remember it all. You won't, not the exact details, not years from now.
12. Just have a slow, ordinary day together. A nap in a sunbeam. A long walk with no destination. Some of the best memories aren't big events at all.
You don't need to check off every single item, and you definitely don't need to do it all in one summer.
It’s not a race. It's just a reminder to say yes a little more often.
This is why I Do What I Do:
Dogs do not wait for us to get around to it
Here is the part that is harder to say out loud. The only real flaw dogs have is that they grow old far too fast.
In 2022, when Spark was a spry 11 years old, her mom and my dear friend, Debbie, asked me to take her portraits while I was visiting for the holidays. Spark had festive bows in her ears, and the Chicago weather cooperated with a not too cold evening and a soft winter sky.
The other day, Debbie sent me a note that she had to let Spark go at 15 years old. She was grateful to have portraits of Spark from when she was still in good health, even with some powdered sugar on her face.
This is why I do what I do.
It's never just a photo. It's proof that a good life happened, something to hold onto when the years catch up. As Debbie put it, and has offered me her permission to share, "It Is So Bleep Bleeping Important!"
Long after the leash is hung up, these are the moments that will warm your heart forever. Rest easy, sweet Spark.
How to Start Your Dog's Bucket List Today
You don't need a perfect plan. You need one afternoon and a leash. Pick one thing off the list above and do it this week.
Then pick another one next month.
And when you're ready to turn one of those memories into something you'll still have long after the fur on your couch has settled, that's where I come in. As a professional pet photographer, I spend my days doing exactly this.
Catching the tilt of a head in that soft golden hour light, the specific gray flecks coming in around a muzzle, the look in a dog's eyes when they're looking at the person they love most in the world.
Senior pet photography is some of the most meaningful work I do. There's nothing like sitting with a dog parent who tells me stories about their dog's whole life while I photograph the next chapter of it. If your dog's getting into their golden years, don't wait. Let's get you portraits you'll treasure for the rest of your life, and theirs.
Reach out and let's plan a session that fits wherever your dog is at right now, puppy energy, gray muzzle, or anywhere in between. Curious what the actual booking process looks like once you decide? Here's how it works.
Frequently Asked Questions
At what age is a dog considered a senior? It depends a lot on breed and size. Smaller dogs often aren't considered seniors until around 10 to 12, while larger breeds can hit that stage as early as 6 or 7. Your vet's the best judge, but if you're spotting more gray around the muzzle or a little less pep in the step, that's usually a good sign it's time to start checking things off the list.
How do I know if my dog is slowing down with age? Look for longer naps, a little more hesitation on stairs, slower starts after resting, or less interest in the games they used to love. None of that means it's time to worry. It just means their pace is changing, and it's a good nudge to start being intentional about how you spend your time together.
Is it too late to start a bucket list if my dog is already a senior? Not even close. Some of the most meaningful bucket list moments happen with dogs who are well into their senior years. Adjust the activities to fit their energy and comfort level, but the point stands either way. Today's still a good day to start.
What if my senior dog has mobility issues or health conditions? Plenty of bucket list items can flex around that. A slow sniff around a new park, a car ride with the windows down, or a cozy photoshoot on their favorite blanket all still count. It's not about the size of the adventure. It's about being present for it.
How far in advance should I book a senior pet photography session? A few weeks out is usually plenty, though booking sooner gives you more flexibility with dates, especially around golden hour timing and seasonal light. If your dog has good and bad days, it also helps to have a little breathing room in case you need to reschedule.
What should I bring to a senior dog's photoshoot? Their favorite treats, a comfy blanket or bed if they tire easily, and anything sentimental like a well loved toy or bandana. Comfort matters more than props here. A relaxed dog always photographs better than a stressed one.
Do you photograph dogs with gray fur or cloudy eyes? Absolutely, and honestly those details are some of my favorite things to capture. The silver around a muzzle or the softness in an older dog's eyes tells a story that a younger dog's portrait simply can't. That's the whole point of legacy photography.
Why should I get professional photos of my senior dog? Phone photos are great, but they get buried. A professional session gives you portraits that actually capture who your dog is, not just what they look like. It's the difference between a quick snapshot and something you'll still have on your wall and in your heart years from now.
Ready to Book Your Session? At Crimson Cat Studios, every animal is unique, and we respect every dog's limits and emotions, reactive or not. If your dog is a senior, give us a call, and we'll walk through exactly what we can do to help them feel comfortable while we capture who they really are.
Gir - a 13 year old pup who can’t hear a dang thing.